Life Lessons: Went to teach; could not communicate; learnt instead


In past four decades I grew within myself with the belief that I am getting better at my communication skills. I did struggle at different phases and pockets but if I call those as exceptions I was moving in the northward direction with my ability to connect to a crowd. Language became a challenge atContinueContinue reading “Life Lessons: Went to teach; could not communicate; learnt instead”

Boiling Point


Indian Chai at Boiling Point One occasion when our expectations are at boiling point if we do not get what we want we lose trust on the person. One occasion when we see our needs are at boiling point if we take the uncomfortable step we gain confidence for lifetime. One occasion when our emotionsContinueContinue reading “Boiling Point”

Declare your intention


We often complain that people don’t understand us. We have good intentions but people misunderstand us. People going by the look of it but miss the core intention. Do not leave a lot for people to interpret unless you want to confuse trick them. Tell your intentions upfront. Your job will be easy and listenersContinueContinue reading “Declare your intention”

Listen ​someone​


non-judgemental listening https://youtu.be/MHJd2P3EjhA Give a good ear to at least one person every week No judgment No perception No expectation A pure listen where your job as a listener is to ensure the speaker’s thoughts are flowing smoothly from mind to lips through an untwisted tongue and uninterrupted jaws. Adjust your body language to giveContinueContinue reading “Listen ​someone​”

Time of Sorrow


Standing alone grounded at the time of sorrow When clouds of sorrows blanket you hiding from the realities around, clutch to your basics. Go home, give yourself some time off. Do not go to any place where you have to show a nice face or act differently than what you are. Pamper that moment likeContinueContinue reading “Time of Sorrow”