We often complain that people don’t understand us. We have good intentions but people misunderstand us. People going by the look of it but miss the core intention.
Do not leave a lot for people to interpret unless you want to confuse trick them. Tell your intentions upfront. Your job will be easy and listeners job will be much easier.
A sweet smile, lots of sweet words but telling a harsh thing irritates people. They understand your smile and words were fake.
Using rough words and a flat face but telling something positive, creates more confusion than happiness.
Do not rely on your body language to convey your intention, declare it upfront.