Fort @ Forties


“You could have stopped her from going,” I said. It was extremely uncomfortable to keep quiet while the couple was intensely arguing over a petty topic. Refraining from taking any sides made it even harder. Felt like trapped. I traveled to Mumbai for the weekend to visit my college friend’s house. Sunil and his wifeContinueContinue reading “Fort @ Forties”

Friendship: A Redefined Perspective


I know, I know… “friendship” – a vast concept to tackle in a single blog post. But I aim to shed light on a unique facet of this bond, one often overlooked. We glorify friendship as a noble, sacrificial endeavor. Yet, genuine friendship, in its purest form, might not always involve grand sacrifices. Recently, IContinueContinue reading “Friendship: A Redefined Perspective”

You don’t need News Year’s Resolution


The content encourages reflecting on one’s personal growth over the past year, influenced by apps like Spotify and Youtube which recap your behavior throughout the year. It guides readers about analyzing experiences, noteworthy people, successes, regrets, and plans for the coming year, likening the process to a river’s constant flow and refreshing itself while changing forms. It recommends an annual self-reflection session, described as a “Year in Review” mind map.

Interference


In a moment of introspection, supported by her wise, non-judgmental neighbor, Rita reflects on her 10-year marriage to Santosh and it’s ups and downs. During this contemplative exercise, Rita realized how her actions and decisions were influenced by proving her husband wrong or avoiding his interference. Her neighbor likens the push and pull in men-women relationships to a river and its bank, each shaping the other, creating a beautiful, albeit sometimes tumultuous, world.

Can’t you drive fast?


During a long trip, a father, son, and grandfather debated the significance of a slow car. The boy argued a better driver could go faster, promoting a profound discussion on the interdependence of mind and body, or driver and car. The realization that one cannot outrun their physical or mental capabilities led to the understanding of empathy and compassion as essential life lessons.

Are you feeding a monster?


Do you consider a subtle disguised critique now and then to be bullying? Would you consider a colleague’s appreciation for the same work you do to be harassment and object to it? In our daily employment, we are subjected to a variety of microaggressions from seniors, coworkers, and, on occasion, juniors. Should we ignore themContinueContinue reading “Are you feeding a monster?”

After you are gone


Empty Seat We assume ownership of our seat on this world, society and within organisations as if it was meant for us. As if it will cease to exist when you are absent. We tie the seat with our existence. We think we created it and will destroy it. We feel it has no meaningContinueContinue reading “After you are gone”

Choose your battle


You constantly juggle between many priorities. Every moment we are at a spot to chose one between many. The tasks do not come with a price tag but they are expensive. Some might take your time and some may peace of mind, some have the ability to make you rich and some will make youContinueContinue reading “Choose your battle”